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I'm going to talk about something profound today. It's human relationships. Before I talk about relationships, what do you think about your relationships? I'm sure there are people who don't think deeply about "human relationships" because they're so complex.

When I was young, I didn't think I seriously considered the benefits of friends or people. Even if I faced new environment such as going from elementary school to middle school and moving to another place, when I was young, I formed a human relationship without any common hobbies. However, as I get older and my brain grows bigger, I think I have this and that, and I have to consider my interests and benefits. For example, my friend who helps me every time I get older and always gets paid for it, so I get to meet him less often. If I always pay all the bills when we eat together, I think it's not helpful in my life, so my relationship naturally grew apart.

Humans are selfish from birth, but as they get older, they want to be ranked from school to school, they want to compete with a certain number of people, and they have a clear interest in meeting people, so they are social animals, and as they get older, their relationships become narrower and lonely.

Man Leaves Alone When He Dies..

Many people say that humans leave alone when they die. But when you leave, you leave alone, but when you see countless people coming to mourn, you can see how much they have given to society and how good their relationships were. Human relationships are bound to be negative when viewed negatively, and positive relationships are bound to be positive when viewed positively. You don't have to try to broaden your relationships until you become a "favorite" in establishing relationships, but you don't have to stay away from people who come to you because you're too skeptical about them. If you think about relationships easily, it's nothing, but if you think deeply, it's very difficult.

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Today, I will talk about relationship and social life. Human beings have no choice but to live in society whether they want it or not - Unless you live alone in the mountain or on a deserted island. Most people go to kindergarten, elementary school, middle, high and college, and work. Throughout this long journey, they form relationship with many other people.

For a long time, you'll have a social life that you don't want or want. Today, I am going to talk about human relationships from the perspective of a particular group, worker and business owners.

Most high school or college students graduate and prepare for the future by preparing for employment at a private or a public enterprises and professional jobs. And when you pass, you go into your own organization and form another human relationship. There are places where you have a lot of opportunities to socialize and places where you don't have any opportunity to socialize. Do you have to attend and have a good relationship? Is this a good social life? I'm sure many people in their 20s and 30s agree, but if you're not a government official, professional, or an employee at the best company in the industry you want, you often change jobs for better conditions and environment in a short time. So after you become an office worker, you feel skeptical about your relationships and say that they are useless. What's more, it's true that after you become an office worker, you've had a busy day every day, and you've become so selfish that you're more and more concerned with relationships that you're skeptical about human relationships.

So, How Should Workers Form a Relationship? 

Depending on how much you want to succeed, the answer will likely vary. It doesn't matter what field you're in, whether you're a civil servant, office worker, or professional. For example, if you are a civil servant and want to go further to the higher level and become a vice minister or minister, will it be possible with your ability? If you're working for a private or public company, it's the same as being a director, managing director, executive vice president, etc. What about accountants or lawyers among professionals? If you are considering to open a business later on, or an accounting firm or a law firm, relationship is the must.
If you are a partner, relationship with other people is critical to sell in a variety of ways, not just in-house relationships, but in order to bring in clients. How about a doctor? The same goes for doctors. If you want to be a professor at a university hospital, of course, you have to have good relationships and social life in your hospital, and if you don't want to fall behind your field of practice, relationships are essential to acquire new knowledge.

What If I am Not Interested in Success Nor Wealth???  

You don't have to think seriously about relationships and social life. However, if you are an ordinary office worker, it doesn't matter if your skills are certain enough to be recognized by the company and if you're sure where you're going to move, then you need to form an in-house relationship so that you won't get fired.

Human relationships and social life are essential for business operators. This is common all over the world. More and more office workers are opening their own businesses. You can study alone to acquire knowledge, such as tax management, etc., but in order to quickly acquire tax laws that change every year, it is better to know people in various ways. The situation in many other countries is the same. If you know someone there, you'll know how helpful it is to go overseas. The same goes for professionals. If you want to expand your business not only in your area of expertise but also in related industries, it's important to have relationships with people in many ways.

Relationship is Must..

If you want to succeed in a certain field and want to be successful, relationships are essential. Although it will become more automated and there will be fewer areas of human involvement in the future, human relationships are essential because any decisions or outcomes that people engage in have a lot of influence on the relationship between people's relationships. However, if it is too deeply related, it can be a problem, and if it is a relationship between "customer" and "seller", it is important to establish a concrete human relationship because the person in the position of "customer" can be quite tired because "seller" knows each other, but it is also very important to manage it.

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Some workers often find it hard to meet new people because of their repetitive work-home routine or company-home-workout or other self-development activities, and you can see such worries on the Internet. They always say that they want to have a relationship with other people, not with coworkers. If you introduce a channel where people can meet new people, they say, they don't have time, or they don't like it because it's awkward at first. When I see these people, I don't think they're ready. Today, for those of you who want to make new relationships, such as forming new connections, dating, etc. other than your co-worker, I would like to introduce you to various channels where you can meet new people without any awkwardness.   

Meetup

Have you heard of the app called Meetup? It is a famous application related to meetings worldwide. There are many meetings going on through Meetup. Since it is an application that came from the U.S., it is the most popular in the U.S.. This application is helpful for personal development, especially for those of who want to improve English skills because you can meet new people, meet foreigners, and expect to improve your English skills. The meetings are divided into categories, so you can join them according to your hobby or interest. It is largely divided into the following sections.

Outside Activities

Technology

Family

Health and Well-Being

Sports/Fitness

Learning

Photography

Food

Writing

Language and Culture

Music

Social Movement

LGBTQ (Sexual Minority)

Movie

Sci-Fi/Game

Belief

Art

Book Club

Dance

Pets

Hobbies and Crafts

Fashion and Style

Fraternity

Business

There are so many different fields, right? As such, you can meet people in various fields. There are groups that actively meet in each meeting, and each group has very different characteristics, such as those that do not have meetings or meet frequently or occasionally, so I think you can understand the characteristics of the group and go to a meeting that suits you and have a new meeting with new people who suit your hobby. There are meetings that cost money for each meeting, so you can refer to them.

InterNations

InterNations, like Meetup, is an application that is developed to help foreigners adapt to foreign countries when they come and live in a new country. That's why this app is also creating gatherings for foreigners. There are big gatherings once a month, depending on a country and when they get together, there are usually tens of people. After the Covid-19 crisis broke out, the meeting has not been held, and instead the meeting is being replaced by remote meetings. Each meeting has a participation fee, so you can check it out and participate in it. Albatross is a membership that allows you to purchase memberships on a 3-month, 6-month, 12-month basis, and the long-month membership costs less each month. This app has a similar personality to Meetup, but it is less active than Meetup. 

You Should Attend the Meetings Continuously..

When you meet new people and go to a new meeting, there are people who can't speak and stay still because of awkward situation, and you have to actively approach new people as much as you want to meet new people. If you approach them actively, there are people who don't get close to new people because they feel burdened or refuse to do so, and you have to overcome this. Also, because a relationship is not a one-time meeting, but a continuous meeting and getting close to each other, you should try to participate in meetings frequently and if there is someone you like in the meeting, you should try to meet separately. Because it takes a lot of time, money, and effort to get close.

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When you meet new person, there are people who look easy because of their first impression, and when they are in school or work, they feel so used that I feel sorry for them. I can't understand why they live like that. Usually, such people are so nice-looking and nice-tempered that they can't refuse other people's favors, but I think this is probably not a good thing but a fool. When you ask people who are being used, there are some people who are angry at themselves, and others who don't even know if they are being used. If you're a student or office worker, and you're being treated like a pushover, let's take some time to give advice to those who want to change your situation.

You must be currently attending school or working. First, change your first impression. If your impression is too nice, you can change the shape of your eyebrows. If someone always asks you for something, please do it with no expression. Unusual impressions and behaviors can make the other person nervous. If you are a student, you don't have to worry about it because the other person is likely to be in the same class. If the other person tries to bully you under the pretext of that, don't dwell too much on it and try to find the right person to be your friend. If you're an office worker and you're worried about the disadvantages of going to the company because the other person is your boss, I'd like to tell you that you're too worried. It's good to live with a smile, but you don't have to force a smile, and if you use it as an excuse to make your company uncomfortable, I don't think it's a long-term company.

It's something in common among those who are treated like a pushover. I don't know how to say no when someone asks me a favor. If you don't want to do it, you don't want to do it. Too much work is too much. You have to be clear about your intentions. If you don't express your intention, I think the person who does it can do it, so I think he or she keeps doing it, and I think he or she doesn't have any complaints. If you have made it clear to the other person that you don't want to do it, but he or she continues to do so, it is right to treat yourself like a pushover. In this case, you should find someone who can solve your complaint and ask for help, or if this doesn't solve it, you should think about coming out of the organization. If you are an office worker, the situation is a little different. You shouldn't just say that you don't want to do what your boss tells you to do because you're in bad shape on that day because you get paid what you are asked to do. Then how can you tell if your company is treating you like a pushover? You can see if the person who asks you to do something makes you do personal or company-related work. Here's an extreme example. If your boss is going somewhere with his family on the weekend and asks you to give him a ride there, he's treating you as a pushover. If the boss asks for a reason that is understandable, he or she can do it or refuse it, but if he or she continues to do the other person's personal things every time he or she sees it, the other person is treating him or her as a pushover. In this case, you should make a decision to quit the company.

This is what I would like to say to current office workers. Usually, bosses in the company tend to give more work to people who are good at work. Even if you joined the company in the same year, your level of work can't help but be different because your skills are all different. If you've been working for more than five years and you've done more work each year than your co-worker, and you're still working more often, you don't have to look better at the company. Because he's not getting recognized. To put it bluntly, these companies tend to push people who are better at their jobs, so if they are good at their jobs, they are more likely to be assigned more jobs than their colleagues. That's why you have to be careful when you work. However, if the company recognizes and rewards you for more effort and performance than those who joined the company the same year, you will have to work hard to achieve the best results every time you do what you do. 

This applies to everyone, whether they are friends or coworkers. In life, there are some people who don't pay for every time they meet, or they don't say a word of thanks for nothing, or they just want to say thank you. Tell these people directly that you pay for it today. If the other party has no money, or when he or she says "I didn't bring my wallet," I'm glad you didn't think that you were a pushover, but if you think the other person treats you as a pushover, I think it's better to stop seeing each other.

You Know Yourself The Best..

You know best about yourself. If you think you're being treated like a pushover, think about why. Is your impression so nice? You've never rejected a request from someone? If you've done a cause analysis, try it the way I listed above to solve it. If the other person is really treating you like a pushover, you should think about not seeing him anymore.

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You've heard that you will have a stomachache if your cousin buys land, right? You are not happy with someone close to you if he or she is successful because of envy and jealousy. Are there people around you or your friends who say that you're doing well, and that you're not that great, rather than sarcastic or complimenting you'really? In my case, when I see people like that, I don't get in touch with them ever since. It's because living with such people for a long time is more harmful than beneficial to me. Moreover, there are a lot of people who want others to fail rather than wish others success, and there are a lot of people who live in a sense of superiority that they are better than others.

Why do envy and jealousy arise? Usually, people who think successful people are similar to them are popular all of a sudden, but people who are jealousy often happen to be in the same place. Even so, if you are really a friend and think of yourself, they congratulate you and rejoice together rather than envy you. Also, there are people who are jealous when they see what goes well with everyone else. That's why there are people on the Internet who compliment and celebrate when someone says it's good, while there are people who are busy posting malicious comments and cutting it down. When I see people like that, I feel pathetic and sometimes I don't understand why they waste their time.

I think blessings come and go depending on how much you give and how much you have in mind. If a person is happy as if he or she is doing well, he or she will be happy as if he or she is successful and if he or she is not, the relationship with him would have ended before.

I've been told many times to see who stays with you when you fail to distinguish between true friends. When we succeeded, people who didn't contact us once called us to buy food, people who asked for help, and so on. There are people who call us if they've had a brief relationship. On the other hand, if you fail, people around you will not be able to contact you often or avoid you. So when people fail, they often say that the person who stays with them until the end is a true friend. But I understand that it's better to stop seeing each other if you think that someone who fails is a disaster and there's no hope in the future.   

Man leaves alone when he dies..

That's what I said earlier. Man leaves alone when he dies. It's sad to hear this, but it's more sad because it's true. There are many situations in which I feel skeptical about human relationships, but as I said above, I think it's because we feel sad about each other in the process of success and failure in our lives. There are people who like to have a lot of people around them, and there are people who live with the thought that only a few really close people are needed. I think it's because people who think like the latter feel tired in their relationships.  

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