Ways To Avoid Being Seen As Easy

Ways To Avoid Being Seen As Easy

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When you meet new person, there are people who look easy because of their first impression, and when they are in school or work, they feel so used that I feel sorry for them. I can't understand why they live like that. Usually, such people are so nice-looking and nice-tempered that they can't refuse other people's favors, but I think this is probably not a good thing but a fool. When you ask people who are being used, there are some people who are angry at themselves, and others who don't even know if they are being used. If you're a student or office worker, and you're being treated like a pushover, let's take some time to give advice to those who want to change your situation.

 

Change Your Impression!

You must be currently attending school or working. First, change your first impression. If your impression is too nice, you can change the shape of your eyebrows. If someone always asks you for something, please do it with no expression. Unusual impressions and behaviors can make the other person nervous. If you are a student, you don't have to worry about it because the other person is likely to be in the same class. If the other person tries to bully you under the pretext of that, don't dwell too much on it and try to find the right person to be your friend. If you're an office worker and you're worried about the disadvantages of going to the company because the other person is your boss, I'd like to tell you that you're too worried. It's good to live with a smile, but you don't have to force a smile, and if you use it as an excuse to make your company uncomfortable, I don't think it's a long-term company.

 

Say You Do Not Like It If You Do Not!

It's something in common among those who are treated like a pushover. I don't know how to say no when someone asks me a favor. If you don't want to do it, you don't want to do it. Too much work is too much. You have to be clear about your intentions. If you don't express your intention, I think the person who does it can do it, so I think he or she keeps doing it, and I think he or she doesn't have any complaints. If you have made it clear to the other person that you don't want to do it, but he or she continues to do so, it is right to treat yourself like a pushover. In this case, you should find someone who can solve your complaint and ask for help, or if this doesn't solve it, you should think about coming out of the organization. If you are an office worker, the situation is a little different. You shouldn't just say that you don't want to do what your boss tells you to do because you're in bad shape on that day because you get paid what you are asked to do. Then how can you tell if your company is treating you like a pushover? You can see if the person who asks you to do something makes you do personal or company-related work. Here's an extreme example. If your boss is going somewhere with his family on the weekend and asks you to give him a ride there, he's treating you as a pushover. If the boss asks for a reason that is understandable, he or she can do it or refuse it, but if he or she continues to do the other person's personal things every time he or she sees it, the other person is treating him or her as a pushover. In this case, you should make a decision to quit the company.

   

Do Not Work So Well! However, When It Is a Good Opportunity For You, Like a Promotion, Show Your Best Skills!

This is what I would like to say to current office workers. Usually, bosses in the company tend to give more work to people who are good at work. Even if you joined the company in the same year, your level of work can't help but be different because your skills are all different. If you've been working for more than five years and you've done more work each year than your co-worker, and you're still working more often, you don't have to look better at the company. Because he's not getting recognized. To put it bluntly, these companies tend to push people who are better at their jobs, so if they are good at their jobs, they are more likely to be assigned more jobs than their colleagues. That's why you have to be careful when you work. However, if the company recognizes and rewards you for more effort and performance than those who joined the company the same year, you will have to work hard to achieve the best results every time you do what you do. 

 

If There Is Anyone Who Gets Paid Every Time, Tell Them To Pay On The Spot!

This applies to everyone, whether they are friends or coworkers. In life, there are some people who don't pay for every time they meet, or they don't say a word of thanks for nothing, or they just want to say thank you. Tell these people directly that you pay for it today. If the other party has no money, or when he or she says "I didn't bring my wallet," I'm glad you didn't think that you were a pushover, but if you think the other person treats you as a pushover, I think it's better to stop seeing each other.

You Know Yourself The Best..

You know best about yourself. If you think you're being treated like a pushover, think about why. Is your impression so nice? You've never rejected a request from someone? If you've done a cause analysis, try it the way I listed above to solve it. If the other person is really treating you like a pushover, you should think about not seeing him anymore.

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