Marriage Decision

Marriage Decision

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When I used to date, I sometimes want to marry him. On the other hand, there are many people who don't feel that way and post messages to their acquaintances or people who are already married for advice.

Marriage Decision...

It may sound grand in a way, but I wonder why people worry about it. First of all, if you're reluctant to marry someone you're dating, one of the big reasons is that he doesn't fit the ideal type of person you want to marry.

I understand that you have to live with someone for the rest of your life; therefore, you can't marry anyone. And the second reason is family. Dating is done between two lovers, but marriage is done by a family. For example, there is a big difference in social status between families, and there are a lot of family events, which I don't like. Besides this, I think there are many people who are worried about marriage for various reasons. Even the day before, there are couples who are worried about marriage. Even when entering the wedding, there are people who worry about it.

You want to get married, but you can't decide?

Compromise with Reality...

As I said before, if you want to go further and get married, you need to know how to compromise with reality. The younger you are, the more likely you are to have an ideal, and the older you get, the better you realize the reality, but it's a pity to see people who can't give up more than that. To put it bluntly, there is no one perfect in the world.

If your ideal type of marriage is realistic, it will be fine, but if it is unrealistic, it will be hard to find such a person, and if you are not worthy of such a person, it will be hard to get married.

Marriage Is Reality...

People who are about to get married have heard of this a lot. Think again. Are you sure you don't regret it? Etc... You can see that there are people who have enough dating before they get married and who know that the person next to them is the best choice in their current situation, but who are worried about meeting someone better than him.

I think it's more difficult to choose between breaking up and meeting someone better. Even if there's a divorce, marriage is more about responsibility than dating. There is an old saying that marriage should be between families of similar kind. I'm not saying this for no reason. If there is a big economic gap or religious and cultural differences between families, it will be very difficult for the loved ones to get married. That's why parents try to break them up before they get married if they see their families and know that their children love each other too much.

In addition to the reasons listed above, there must be a variety of concerns. If the other person's parents wanted too much, or something like that. If both lovers decided to get married and there were no worries between the two families, it would have been a blessing like heaven. But realistically, few couples who are about to get married have no worries at all.

Know Yourself..

So I'm thinking about marrying the person I'm dating now, and how did the married people decide to marry? You already know this. Ask yourself. If marriage with the person right in front of you is a concern, and if you can meet someone better than him then break up. The fact that you're worried about it now is likely to worry about it even after you get married. If this person doesn't fit your ideal type, but he or she is the best choice, then don't think about it anymore and decide on a marriage.

That's all for today. 

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